Figured I'd update this with what I found out. A lot of the info online mislead me at the start of this but down in the states, hid's were not a factory option and up here in Canada they were. After looking at the forester myself I discovered that the factory ignitor was in fact toast.
A Canadian company called absolute HID was able to sell me what I needed for 60 bucks + 14 shipping. Factory ignitor from Subaru would have been 300+ or something like that.
Would recommend the Absoulte HID guy. He's very knowledgable and actually started the company out here in Calgary. Based out of Toronto now I believe.